Why Men Should Envy Solo Women Travelers


You see, I actually witness people become amazed when I share them stories about solo women travelers (yup, I’m a friend to some of them). Their eyes widen and almost instantaneously turn into disbelieving slits. Then I tell them my unadulterated green envy, and their jaws drop in total incredulity.  But when I enumerate my reasons, their faces lighten up, women warm up, and I sink further into my self-created issue of hopelessness.
Men should envy solo women travelers because they alone can act cute in front of  anybody. No man, not even gays can do that. It’s unthinkable! And creepy. You could not even do any social experiment on that. Don’t get me wrong, its not the movie-type of acting cute. Women have many (many!) levels of cuteness in their armory. Puss in the Boots has only one.
Women can act strong. Yes! I have to say, yes, or a lot of my friends will whisk away my remaining hair. But they can also act “helpless” even in very subtle ways. They have gestures that immediately send signal to create social reaction designed to protect the weak. A good example would be the two arms covering the upper torso (either crossed or parallel).  And that high-pitched yelp in the word of “help.” If you’re a man, try doing it in front of the mirror, or even in front of your friends or parents. Just be ready to get really frustrated.
Women can easily make a signal called “leave me alone”  “I don’t drink” or “I sort of don’t trust you” without making a fuss and still keep friends with the locals or other fellow travelers in an inn or a diner. For a man, do it once and he will be treated like he has a communicable disease while he’s stuck in his current place.
Some (rare species, actually) men can also be good at this – but the art of haggling is really in the genes of women. Say, “ten dollars? Bring it down to one dollar and we have a deal.” Man, that is insane! Impossible!, in the vocabulary of men, but just another shopping day for women.
There are so many other reasons why men should start respecting solo women travelers. Call it fascination or whatever positive adjective you can think of. I will simply regard it as envy coated with chocolate and presented with a bouquet of roses.
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About Caloy Libosada

I have been a tourism and travel advocate not only because I've seen the beauty of the Philippines but also realized how tourism can change the lives of the people who benefit from the industry.