Kiss a Frog, Find Your Prince

Frog prince (Photo credit: glamitycalamity)
Frog prince (Photo credit: glamitycalamity)
Frog prince (Photo credit: glamitycalamity)
Frog prince (Photo credit: glamitycalamity)

To every single lady out there, perhaps you constantly ask yourself, why you’re single. One possible reason could be your DOUBLE STANDARD. You look for your Ideal prince charming: MR. PERFECT. Good looking, smart, with great career, sensible, sweet, caring, doesn’t  smoke, doesn’t drink, doesn’t flirt, doesn’t gamble, who will never cheat on you, who will send you red roses every day, who will give you foot massage when your ankle hurts because of that 5 inches prada shoes, who will write tear-jerker poems and slip it inside your bag, your book or under your pillow, who will hug and kiss you when you’re throwing tantrum episodes, that guy who will give you piggy back ride, that guy who will kiss you under the rain, that guy who will not touch you until he asks your hand from your father and you’re already wearing that ring… Come on, girl. If you find one. Please stop sniffing that nail polish remover! You’re hallucinating! Haha. Well maybe that guy exists, but usually taken, married or gay… Major bummer!

Princes,s set aside your Disney’s fairytale standard. Look, all men are princes, they just come in different horses. I know that sounds ridiculous. Ok, let me try again: ALL MEN ARE PRINCES, THEY JUST WEAR DIFFERENT ARMORS. That sounds better. Some prince wear leather armorscale armor, plate armor, ceramic, kevlar armor, and others might look moronic because his armor was  made in aluminum foil, haha. My point is, whatever kind of armor he’s wearing, he’s still a prince.

Give the FROG a chance, of course I’m not talking about the slime creature you dissect during biology class! I’m pertaining to MR. NOT-SO-PERFECT – the guy with the zits, the guy with the beer belly, the four-eyed geek from your algebra class who always helps you survive the day, your male jerk friend who constantly mocks and annoys you. Don’t look too far, maybe he’s just on your side or turn around. Perhaps you haven’t noticed him pass by because you’re too busy chasing Mr. Perfect. HE MAY NOT BE PERFECT, BUT HE CAN BE MR. RIGHT. You just have to give him a chance. Don’t be afraid to fall in love with Shrek or get tangled with the Beast.

Now, you’re afraid to fall in love again because someone broke your heart. Please don’t jump into conclusion that they are all the same. Ask yourself. Maybe it was your fault why that relationship didn’t work out in the first place, or maybe you always go for the same type of guy that is not meant for you. Snow White sweetie, stop eating that same poisoned apple over and over again! And please don’t look for someone who will give you that glass slipper. I’m not saying Cinderella was a gold-digger. In reality, that glass slipper symbolizes  wealth and material things. Don’t marry someone just because he can give you all the material things you desire. Yes, there is nothing wrong with being practical, but don’t forget that crazy love thing. You’re not only lying to him, you’re also lying to yourself. You can’t buy love and real happiness.

Real life is a fairy tale, a wonderland, a twisted wonderland. Every story starts with once upon a time, but doesn’t always end with happily ever after. You can’t always have happy endings in every chapter of your book because there are things beyond our control. But you are the primary writer; you can always create happy moments and precious memories in every page. You have the power to make it a masterpiece. And pain is just part of everyone’s journey. You don’t forget the pain, you heal them. Real life, real stories, and real people can have real magic.

You are the daughter of a king, you deserve a prince. If your frog is not yet around, don’t worry, princess. Someday YOU WILL FIND HIM. But if the stars have a different plan, one day HE WILL FIND YOU.

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