I’ve learned that…

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone that can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learned that you can do some thing in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned that money is a lousy way to keep score.

I’ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learned that no matter good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

21 Comments

  1. As a self-confessed idealist, you write like a realist. If you believed what you’ve learned, then why do you grieve? Come on, be realistic and move on… You may learn a lot of realities in life… but the best thing there is in life is the fact we can have second chances and believe it. Just open you heart and mind. Remember that when everything else fails… there is still someone who would be there for you. Who? GOD!

  2. Having God in my life makes me feel c0mf0rted fr0m pe0ple who are n0t sinscere in their treatment with u because s0me of them get nice to u bec0z they just want to get s0mething fr0m u.And there are pe0ple who d0n’t really like us f0r s0me other reas0ns they have. Or even if there were n0 s0me reas0ns at all. It was d fact that no one of us was perfect. Alth0ugh it wasnt always, but u g0t to be ready, c0z s0metimes it is really painful but I kn0w it makes me str0nger and wiser than bef0re. I still thank them f0r making me str0nger. And kn0wing them earlier s0 i w0uld kn0w and be wise with their strategies and so i c0uld act acc0rdingly. Also I just leave them to God’s hands, I kn0w God is watching us, watever things they have d0ne to me, it will c0me back to them. Just like wat the saying says, “What you sow, you will reap”.. If u s0w l0ve, u will reap l0ve, if u s0w bad seeds u will reap bad fruits to0. Maybe n0t at 0nce, but eventually u will reap it in God’s time. =)

  3. Having God in my life makes me feel c0mf0rted fr0m pe0ple who are n0t sinscere in their treatment with u because s0me of them get nice to u bec0z they just want to get s0mething fr0m u.And there are pe0ple who d0n’t really like us f0r s0me other reas0ns they have. Or even if there were n0 s0me reas0ns at all. It was d fact that no one of us was perfect. Alth0ugh it wasnt always, but u g0t to be ready, c0z s0metimes it is really painful but I kn0w it makes me str0nger and wiser than bef0re. I still thank them f0r making me str0nger. And kn0wing them earlier s0 i w0uld kn0w and be wise with their strategies and so i c0uld act acc0rdingly. Also I just leave them to God’s hands, I kn0w God is watching us, watever things they have d0ne to me, it will c0me back to them. Just like wat the saying says, “What you sow, you will reap”.. If u s0w l0ve, u will reap l0ve, if u s0w bad seeds u will reap bad fruits to0. Maybe n0t at 0nce, but eventually u will reap it in God’s time. =)

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