It seems uso na ang ganun sa panahon ngayon. “FRIENDS KAMI WITH BENEFITS”. Ano nga ba ang mayroon sa salitang ito?
Ang sabi ng iba, it is a bind of two people’s break-up over complications of a serious relationship and decide to continue their relationship a step down, but not far enough as to have physical boundaries. Usually, it is couple of friends who desire a physical relationship with each other, but not involving any emotional ties with one another.
Kapag tinatanong naman ang sabi?
“We’re not going out for dating. We’re just friends with benefits.” ang agad na sagot ng bawat isa.
Ano ng ba talaga ito…? It is okay kaya sa panahon ngayon???
A safe relationship daw, ‘ika nga, that mimics a real partnership but is void or greatly leaking jealousy and other such emotions that come with a serious relationship. But for sure limit comes. And shit always happen.
However, if you’re a girl you know that it’s impossible to have a sexual relationship without getting your emotions involved.
Kahit walang sexual relationship na involved… Friends with benefits doesn’t mean that you’ll have sex with… depende pa rin sa inyong dalawa .. depende sa napagkasunduan ng bawat isa, pero mahirap pa rin kahit no attachment involved.
If the time comes when you will find attaching your emotion then it ruins everything. Usually you (both) end up being afraid to tell the person that you want serious commitment because you don’t want to be rejected.
You keep your friends with benefits relationship because you are afraid of losing the person all together but it hurts you because you want more. You know you should tell the person how you really feel but you can’t because you love them and you’re afraid of losing them.
When you finally do tell the person that you love them they might tell you that they love you back, if they don’t then you can both move on, either way it’s worth a shot because if you don’t ask you’ll never know.
Kaya kung nasa ganitong stage ang relationship niyo , pag isipan mong mabuti at panindigan ang salitang FRIENDS KAMI WITH BENEFITS…. Dahil sa huli , we will end up being a human.