Basic Ways to be Happy

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Most people are looking for happiness…. But nevertheless we sometimes forget the basic basis on happiness… Most of us have no control over our emotional feeling fo reason of being a human. We forget the basic way of happiness when good stuff happens, but depressed when things go in unexpected ways. Our lives are like tires on a car, sometimes it’s going up and sometimes way down. But we sometimes forget that we are the ones who hold the steering to maneuver the way and path that we choose for our life.


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Expect less, love more..

Expect less, love more. In our daily life, we tend to have unreasonable expectations. We always ask the difference between what we feel but what we actually get is the source of much misery if expectations fails. We expect others to treat us more than we treat them, we work out a few times and stress out ourselves because we expect more. Stop thinking in terms of what should be and accept what is… When you live without entitlement, every good thing becomes a wonderful surprise. Even better, expecting nothing means never being disappointed.

Learn to accept failures and say thanks on things you already have. Stop Chasing for happiness and start Living life to the fullest.

Many of us feel that we need something more … (more money, more new clothes, and better relationships) for us to be happy. We often think that If only we had that other thing, we would be complete. Instead of enjoying life, we chase a huge idea of happiness. But unfortunately even when we get everything that’s supposed to make us happy, life will always offer ups and downs, because there’s no such thing called “PERFECT” in this world. If we always look hard enough, we’ll always find reasons to be miserable. So stop chasing for happiness and start living life to the fullest by learning to embrace failures and appreciate things that we have… Wanting more is fine, but don’t forget to relax and enjoy life for what it is in the present.

Don’t put blame on others …. Be responsible … Don’t assume responsibility that you can’t handle by showing off!

We can’t accept our own mistakes without pointing fingers to other. We often blame other people, circumstances and even objects for our problems. Blaming persons for what they become as a person. “I’m this way because my family didn’t love me enough” and more Bla…. Bla… blah… Instead of blaming others for what’s wrong in our life, focus on what we can do to make things better. Never sulk and try not to feel sorry for ourselves too often. It’s our responsibility to make ourselves happy, nobody else’s.
Yeah, life is full of different people and different situations, some are good and some are bad to handle it. Unless we assume responsibility for our life, (not the “other’s” responsibility that you can’t handle by showing off), we would always be at the mercy of those circumstances.

Plan your work, Work your plan and take no fear to act….

Planning your work is the easiest way of having precaution and by working it is the best assets anyone could have. Taking no fear to act is the logical consequence of assuming responsibility for our life …..
Best example, “When you want to lose weight, start jogging or exercise! Don’t let your mouth do the talks without working on it… Search on google where you can find site that you can get plenty of advice that will help you take the action in a smart way. With enough hard work and dedication, you really can create the life you want.

Don’t let others ruin and discourage you to keep going. Never give up…. Decide with your brain but listen to others opinion…

We must stop focusing on what we consider bad and just walk through it BUT DON’T LET OTHERS RUIN AND INTERFERE IT….. In our life we will consider to find more good things than bad once we stopped being the victim. Another good thing is try to consider other situation by not hurting their feelings, putting ourselves in someone else’s shoes… Obviously if they are arrogant there is a reason. The choice is yours if you continue to be around them. If we have no choice because it’s our boss, or they’re in line with our carrier then still we have a choice. Try to understand him/her, or find a new job. If you’re unhappy with your job, start looking for a new one. Get behind the steering wheel of your own life!

Do your Best and let God take the risk! Talk to God in everything you’re going through. Empty your heart from stress. Take time to meditate.

God is always have a heart to listen when you talk to him. He can be our friend who listens to everything we been through. If you’re shy to talk to your family or friend because you been in difficult and yet shameful situation, then talk to him and whisper a little prayer without ceasing. Have courage to wait….. You’d never lose sleep over a relationship that isn’t working out and blame God for it? Educate yourself and commit to find happiness no matter what it takes.…. And if Bad things will happen to you that you undergo the highs, lows and lots of mediums in your life, GOD is always there to listen unto you when you talk… Empty your hearts and brain from stress, take time to meditate… God never let you down in anyhow.
Nevertheless, May these tips help you to achieve and get your own happiness. Anyway, at the end; you are YOU, behind the steering wheel of your own life! You’re only human, just like everybody else. Happiness is a choice. The feeling is in your own mind, YOU choose to feel it and only you can make it happens. May this list become steps become your guide. You got to loose nothing; if you try it and then if you don’t like it you can go on your way. You don’t have to think of any particular thing to be happy.


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