Mongo (With Dilis) On A Friday… Forever?

Extra-crunchy dilis on rice


Mongo with a twist -- ham bits buried beneath the beans
Mongo with a twist -- ham bits buried beneath the beans

Not all Filipino households these days are the same as in the past. The family unit is no longer the way it was. Unlike some of my cousins, my family is still intact and complete. I have Manila-based cousins whose parents have separated. I have province-based cousins whose mom or dad is abroad to work away from them. This is probably why it is imperative for some kids who were left behind to carry on the cooking knowledge and styles of their elders.

In Filipino homes, it’s been a standard for housewives to serve Sautéed Mongo every Fridays. As a kid I would know my mom to religiously follow this tradition. Fortunately, it’s still part of the Filipino diet as the commercial food industry has incorporated it into their menu every Friday. Countless of carinderias and office/school canteens always schedule serving the dish on the same day. Mongo is surprisingly available any time of the week even in restaurants like Cafe Bola.

Saturday night became my finest food experience when I tasted Cafe Bola’s version of the dish. The twist was in the inclusion of ham bits in the mix. Of course, the ampalaya leaves made the distinctive balance as part of the traditional recipe of the dish. Some versions even have chicharon bits, but I simulated its effect on the palate by ordering a sampling of our native dilis. Amazingly, the dilis I had was uniquely small in size and delicately cooked to be extra-crunchy. The combo of the smooth mongo and crunchy dilis in my mouth was pure heaven.

Extra-crunchy dilis on rice
Extra-crunchy dilis on rice

I can only hope the same for my relatives and for countless of Filipino kids who have been left behind, for whatever reason, to recall how it was for their elders to cook mongo for them every Friday. Today’s generation is after all the next one that will tend to the future’s Filipino youth. They can continue the tradition. Kung ‘di man nila matutunan ang pagluto ng mongo at dilis (at ng iba pang Filipino dish), sana’y tangkilikin pa rin nila ang pagkain nito kahit man lang sa mga restaurants that serve it para ‘di sila makalimot.

Karl Acepcion is also your Fine Life Folk and The Philippine Guild Guide. For more of his blogs, visit Fine Life On A Budget and The Philippine Guild.

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  • gamila tarek

    Dilis and Mongo………everytime i took vacation i brought that with me like 2 kilos each…….i place that to company baggage cause its prohibited to hand carry that……….this last up to1 year up to the time i”ll come to have vacation again……… order it will last place that in fridge. Oh! everytime i miss to eat mongo and dilis i just get small amount and do it in a way we do it back home.
    Now a days i can buy mongo either The embassy of Indonesian or the one who is making bussiness products from Saudi Arabia. 😉

  • Robert

    Ha! My favorite! “Wag ka?!” These are one of the things i miss in the Philippines!