LOVE can be a blessing or a curse… Your choice.
Stupid love is not Real Love because LOVE is NOT Stupid. If one has to be stupid in order to be loved, then that’s not love at all. The difference between fighting for love and self destruction, is you’re not fighting alone. Yes, pain can prove how much we love someone, but too much of anything is a bad thing. Kung gusto mo mag mahal ng pang habang buhay… just don’t, because forever doesn’t exist. Everything and everyone will change… may even break, and eventually die. Kung mag mamahal ka, yung sakto lang. Enough to express your love towards one another, pero wag ka naman mag paka baliw nang sobra… to the point na you forget about yourself. Love can’t always conquer all… but you can:) Kung kailangan ipaglaban, sige go! As long as dalawa kayo… teamwork. And syempre my purpose… kase kung wala, sayang lang efforts mo jan.
For those on the other side of the road:
If bad habits become a problem, then stop if you want to be with that person. Kung hindi mo kaya mag stop, at kung talagang mahal mo sya… then let her/him go. Medyo selfish, pero diba mas ok na lang na iba ang mag pakatanga sayo… kesa naman yung mahal mo pa ang mag dusa? Kase diba pag mahal mo, ayaw mo masaktan. Kaya if you let go, you will give your love a chance to be happy with someone else na kaya sya pahalagahan. Kung my lakas na loob ka mag loko, then lakasan mo din yung loob mo to face the consequences. Whatever your reasons or excuses may be, don’t forget that all of that can be vice versa. Hindi lang ikaw yung nag iisang lalaki/babae sa mundo, so most likely hindi din ikaw yung pinaka good looking, smart, and other qualities you seek… sa balat ng lupa. Someone out there is better than you in certain aspects; pero yung taong nag mamahal sayo will accept you for you, all of you. Kaya nga kinaya nya ifight yung temptations at mga kontrabida sa paligid nyo. Nag sacrifice sya for you, kaya ikaw dapat ganun din. Give and take, hindi yung puro take lang.
For those jaywalking on both sides of the road:
Gaguhan na yan. Nakaka sawa rin. Overrated na yang “friends with benefits”. Kase kung totoong kaibigan, e di dapat you respect each other diba? And kung my feelings kayo for each other… then there’s no such thing as “no strings attached”. Eventually ma huhulog din kayo sa isat isa, then you’re gonna lie to yourself kung ipilit mo yang “no expectations”. Pang bata lang yan… why waste time diba? If you like each other… well, say so. Kung sex lang, edi one time… period. Wag na mag pa asa, iwas na din sa mnga “clingy”.
For those who are lost:
You’re not alone, but for now,focus on yourself. Never rely on others to complete you because you can do that on your own. There’s a difference between dependence and complementing each other. Yes, opposite may attract, but towards the end, don’t fall in that “pleasing” trap. Remember na opposite kayo kaya ka nga nagustuhan, so don’t change for anybody but yourself.
For the veterans of LOVE:
Congrats sa inyo, and I wish you more anniversaries to come. Good job at nalampasan nyo lahat ng challenges and complications na hinampas ng panahon. Dahil sa persistence and patience nyo, kabilang kayo sa mga swerteng nilalang. Love can get ugly at times, but it gets even more beautiful each time it survives a storm. Good luck to you, may your love last even longer:)
If you’re single:
Good for you, now you have another chance to meet “the one”. Pero hinay hinay lang, wag masyado atat. There’s a right time and place, so don’t settle for less. Lawakan ang mata, tenga, at isipan… wag puro puso lang. Learn from past lessons and experiences to avoid the same mistakes. Past is past, forgive and forget, move on na. Tama na kaka emote dyan. Look in the mirror, ikaw parin naman yan diba? Kahit feeling mo durog na ang puso mo and parang zombie kana kung kumilos, well the world didn’t stop turning, now did it? At least diba, humihinga ka parin naman dyan? Kaya cheer up okay? Stop over thinking and analyzing everything. Let go na. Reality cheack. Sumugal ka sa love and you lost. Pero don’t stop there. Rebuild yourself. Get your strength and confidence back, para next time sumugal ka… make sure you win. Hindi naman ata pwede basta talo ka na lang, diba dapat bumawi ka? Eh pano ka manalo kung hindi ka susugal ulit diba?
Thank you for the eyes, I hope nagustuhan nyo po. As usual, wala pong plot ito… sulat ng utak kaya kahit anu na lang maisip. And kung my naasar kasi dami English, at mas type nyo puro Tagalog lang… sensya na po kinder lang na tapos ko sa pinas kaya eto lang kaya ko. I’m sure puro wrong grammar yung Tagalog ko,pero hey, at least I tried.
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