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I realized that being single isn’t being lonely. This is the time to make up for myself and to make myself whole and independent. There’s a quote that says that “Be not a girl who needs a man but be a girl a man needs.” Guess this is right. Instead of searching for love, you must search it inside yourself. And then you’ll hear the voice of God inside you and you’ll become the person that you didn’t even know that you can become.

The truth is, I don’t really know if I can love. If I would , I want it to be authentic. Yet if I wanted it to be one of a kind, I am still dominated by the clichéd love found in teleseryes, koreanovelas, movies etc. Or I guess there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s just my plain observation that people whom I have encounters with subconsciously pattern and base their love lives to the outlines and frameworks of love stories found especially on T.V that they get blinded and they can’t see the real thing. And what’s the real thing, aber?? Or maybe it could be the other way around.

The real thing is that we don’t really know how love existed or evolved, that maybe love, after all, is just a myth. Love is a friend of capitalism(Oh please don’t kill me for saying this). If it weren’t for that kind of love — bears, chocolates, cards, bouquets of flowers wouldn’t be sold out every month of February.

Sometimes too, I don’t know the difference between love and infatuation . Can I really love a person, or, do I only love the person in my imagination?

Maybe I just wanted to find the real thing, which is LOVE— other than the clichéd love the society has indirectly taught me about. Or maybe, I’m just a total dreamer or a career woman who wants to be great in all the things that I do. But for now, I ”ll just wait= live. But for now, I’ll be playing my favorite romantic koreanovela or teleserye episodes in my mind, and pretend that I was the protagonist and the rope in the tug of war between two aggressive lovers. But for now, I’ll be staying single until I reach my dreams and ambitions. It’s too early to think about my love life you know,- so call me, maybe?

HAHAHA! Just joking.xD