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Why do Men Cheat?

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1. Boredom, thrill of the unknown. ‘Ang pagdating ng teknolohiya sa daigdig ay isang dahilan upang pagsimulan ng pagtataksil. Nariyan ang instant messaging, texting at cell phones. Ang internet ay puno ng chat-rooms at websites na puwedeng pag-ukulan ng ilang oras ng isang kaperaha. Gayunman, nasa choice pa rin ng tao kung nanaisin niyang mapasailalim sa teknolohiyang ito

2. Hindi na siya gaya ng dati. “Dati rati ang sipag niyang mag-ayos sa sarili, ngunit noong naging sila na, wapakels na. Maaaring si babae ay hindi na palaayos gaya ng dati o hindi na siya mabango. Alam naman nating ang mga lalaki ay mahilig sa “wow” factor. Gusto niya lagi maayos ang kanyang kapareha. Laging sexy, at parating thrill ang bawat moments na magkasama sila. Yung tipong pinipigil niya ang paglunok ng laway niya. (He-he).

3. Communication Gap. May mga magkakapartner na kung mag-usap na lang ay tipong nag-uusap na lang kayo tungkol sa lagay ng mga trabaho o career. O kung sa mag asawa tungkol na lang sa mga anak, o ang bahay o ng mga gastusin – pero hindi tungkol talaga sa inyong estado bilang mag-asawa o estado ng inyong relasyon. Ano, hindi mo maintindihan? Be romantic naman. Ligawan mong muli si Mare o si ate. Masama bang ulitin ang “I love you, ikaw lamang ang babae sa aking puso, Iniibig kita”. Alam mo ‘pag wala nang communication sa pagitan niyong dalawa, maaring ang isang kapareha ay naghahanap ng ‘ibang’ makakausap. Hala ka.

4. Masyadong matalak . Mahirap ba kontrolin ang pagiging nagger? May iba na animo’y lamok na nakakairita. Kung ganito nga, maaaring maghanap ng mas understanding ang isang kapareha. Huwag naman kasi masyado matalak, magalit ka ng tama lang, huwag naman yung mula ulo hanggang paa ay kwestunin mo.

5. Magkaiba na ng gusto. O ‘di naman kaya ay nagkasawaan na? Kung dati para kayong tae ng kambing na mahirap mapaghiwalay saan man magpunta, ngayon ay kanya-kanya na ang lakad niyo. Si babae, gusto lagi ay shopping, o kaya katsikahan ang kaibigan. Si lalaki naman ay laging busy, o sumasama sa barkada. Try to spend more time as much as possible with your partner. If possible, prioritize her/him in any case.

6. Romance o Sex. Ganoon? Kahit pa masaya ang pagsasama dahil malusog ang anak, maganda ang estadong pang pinansyal ng pamilya at iba pa, kung nawawala na ang passion ng mag-asawa o magkapareha, ang isang kapareha ay maaaring ma-bore. Yung mga lalaki na mamamatay- puro sinasabi nila ay gusto naman tumikim ng ibang putahi. Bakit ‘di mo nalang kaya katayin yung ipis at ipakain sa kanya? Tiyak ibang putahi yun. Ang love at sex o lust ay magkaiba.

7. “Revenge.” Ano? Naghihigante ka? Yes, maaari. Kapag nahuli niya na naglalaro ng matinding apoy ang kanyang kapareha, puwedeng dumating sa puntong gumanti ito – na ikokonsidera niyang paghilom ng kanyang damdaming nasaktan. Pero ito ay isang bulok na dahilan o pagdadahilan.

8. Dahil may pagkakataon o tukso. Minsan kasi, may ibang babae na kumakaringking sa nananahimik na kaluluwa. Sabi nga nila, palay na ang lumapit sa ibon (ibon para maiba naman). Sa mga lalaki kasi, mahirap ayawan si tukso, mahirap kalabanin, mahirap layuan. Kaya minsan, ang dating ‘faithful husband’ ay nagiging close friend ni tukso na siyang dahilan ng pagtataksil sa kanyang kapareha.

9. They have fallen out of love. Yay, ito yung masakit na katotohanan. Yung ‘kasi hindi na kita mahal’ or’ nawalan na ako ng amor sa iyo’. Lagapak! Clearly, if a man isn’t happy in his relationship, he should just end it, and save his partner from the pain and suffering instead of lying and cheating just to satisfy his own needs. It’s selfish and unhealthy! Try mo rin itulak sa bangin para totally ‘fallen’ siya.
10. Because you have allowed it in the past.  Hindi natin maiiwasan magpatawad kapag ang pakner natin ay nagkasala o nagtaksil sa unang pagkakataon. Pero minsan nagagawa pa rin nila ito sa pangalawang beses. Men find ways to make excuses to cheat, and they LIE TO YOU! Nobody’s perfect, but when you lie, you’re just adding more fuel to the fire. Eventually, you will get burnt! Don’t allow yourself to get cheated on, nor cheat yourself out of your own happiness.
In reality, not only men cheat, women do too. But even if a woman is ‘almost perfect’, men can still cheat her. I wonder why. In the case of women, if they find the ‘not almost perfect but a loving man‘, there is no space for the word ‘cheat’ in a woman’s heart and mind. Cheating is being deleted from her vocabulary.

Ang masasabi ko lang, “Pare, huwag ka naman maging  murderer ng mga kawawang puso’.

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  • charing

    Some men or women cheat, I don’t know why nor understand it, but it happen. Maybe they are with someone they don’t really love or they just think the lust. Whatever their reason is they are the only one knows about it.
    I hope if men or women not happy their partner they just leave them before they do such thing.

  • Angie0522

    people cheat. ang hirap lang kasi, minsan may babaeng lumalapit ng kusa at naninira ng relationships kaya minsan hindi mo masisi ang lalaki. sa panahon ngayon, it doesnt matter kung babae o lalaki. applicable na din lahat ng dahilan sa babae

  • Bitsobitso

    Respeto lang….sa kahit anong bagay basta nawala ang respeto gulo lang ang kalalabasan

  • yes, unfair yong title, marami din namang mga babae na unfaithful sa partners nila 🙂

  • aimeeindubai

    To make it fair..sumulat ako ng ‘Why do Women Cheat” Paki abangan nalang po ah.. Salamat po sa pagbabasa.God bless.

  • jayjay

    Another one of those gender stereotype. Guys are cheaters and girls don’t fart. The title should be “why do partner cheats” or something like that.

  • Laraine

    Guys will always cheat when their heart does not belong to you and it belongs to another!! Women must make sure that what they really say and do, they really mean, and are not playing you.Because if they are playing you and refuse to meet and give respect to your parents and are afraid, they are not serious about, they are just playing. Don’t give in to them, if they just want to meet in secret, because it means they have something to hide. If they have the GUTS to pay respect to your parents, then it means they are serious about you and will respect you, love you, and won’t cheat on you. So, watch and see how they act because it tells you about their character, and what they really want from you!!…Don’t forget to PRAY!!…God will reveal the things we woman can’t see…

  • Laraine

    Two wrongs don’t make a right. But if the guy cheats does that mean the girl is allowed to cheat?? I just saying that guys are setting an example to other women to cheat, so now a days women cheat too, because guys like to play them, girls play guys too!!…Just saying…what comes around, goes around. That’s why a how a person acts, sets an example for others to follow, even though that person might know that it affects others.. :/

  • yes kinda unfair title nga. di lang naman lalaki nagch-cheat.sa panahon ngayon pati mga babae ganun na din. equal lang nasa tao lang talaga yon.

  • dodong

    My bestfriend’s wife just cheated on him.
    Kinda unfair title.

  • jessa maria

    accept ko pa siguro if men will cheat kasi mahal nila ang taong dahilan why sila nag cheat…