Falling with Miss Perfect
I read this blog of a friend. It’s a story sort of how she fell in love with a guy, that she said all started with a kiss . While going through each line of her narration, I can’t help but admire the relationship and even commented about their love story. There are times I felt jealous towards the guy hehehe. I even told myself, “sana ako na lang yun guy” . Despite the distance, nandun ang respect, trust, uninterrupted communication, and most of all avy yung faithfulness sa isa’t isa. Maybe these are the ingredients kaya until now they are happily in love with each other.
I asked myself after closing her blog, sabi ko when will I have that kind of woman? Asan ba sya? Where will I find her, or do I really need to look around para matagpuan ko sya? Many said, “kusa na lang darating yan, at the right time and place”. Sabi naman ng iba, “andyan lang sya sa tabi-tabi hindi mo lang siguro napapansin. Maybe you’re too busy with your daily routine whatever it is, that you don’t bother to make pansin to her” :). Ha ha! Ganun nga ba? Maybe yes, maybe no. Well, looking back there would have been some who seemed to be perfect. Pero bakit hindi nagprosper yung relationship? What went wrong?
People come and go. Some creates pleasure, laughter, unforgettable memories, samantalang yung iba naman, creates pain, tears, and for some, wounds that even when it heal would leave a scar that would remind us of their being part of our lives at some point in time. For those lucky enough to have the love of their lives, congratulations! Take care of it, make the most out of it, live happily each day with it. For those who have been wounded, it’s never the end of the world. “Life must go on”, sabi nga ng marami di ba. On a positive outlook, it’s their loss not yours .
But why some people don’t settle for those who created laughter in their lives? Why does the search can’t just be over and settled for one? What is the right formula in order to create a perfect match? “Hey man, there’s no such thing as perfect. I believe it’s kinda state of mind, ego that created such standards. Look at her, isn’t she enough for ya? What are you looking for man? You’re not getting any younger, time for you to be happy, to love and beloved…” hahaha these are the words from an old American friend, concerned over my being loveless at the moment … I laugh whenever i remember a lady friend said “torpe ka naman pala eh, magaling ka lang sa profession u but torpe ka..” haha of course not. Ung isa sabi naman, ”…uggh ur weird…sya na nga lumapit sau..” com’n guys, it’s not that I’m such kinda man, I just don’t feel it okay, and i don’t want to use the situation for the sake of consolation.
For you Miss Right, where are you? Are you near me or yet to be found … No, seriously maybe she’s just around the corner, nearby. But I wanna make sure that the feeling is mutual, sincere enough, and can pledge to stand the test of time, regardless of distance, even against all odds, together as one, for the rest of our lives.
Miss Right? Miss Perfect? Yeah there is such kind of thing; I do believe in that. It’s the moment when you feel that just by being with her fills up all the incompleteness and the imperfections within you. It’s the moment that you don’t have to worry about being penniless, uncombed hair, worn out shirts, etc… It’s just the moment when you realize and feel that you’ve got the priceless gems in this world – she and her love.
So whenever that time comes we both feel that way, I wouldn’t have the second thought of taking her with me, for life…