Because You Loved Me…
Alam kong ang mga Pinoy ay likas na romantiko at malamang alam ninyo ang lyrics ng kanta ni Celine Dion…
“You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn’t speak
You were my eyes when I couldn’t see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn’t reach
You gave me faith ’coz you believed
I’m everything I am
Because you loved me….. “
Ang sarap ma-in love, hindi ba?? 
Actually ang kanta ring ito ang theme song naming mag-asawa…Every lyrics of this song was perfectly inked for us…sa inyo…at sa lahat ng taong in-love….
Bawat pag-ibig, masaklap, matamis, madrama at lahat ng uri ng relasyon ay may katapat na theme song..
May mga times pa nga na kapag broken-hearted ka, lahat ng sad songs perfect para sa ‘yo at nakakarelate sa bawat lyrics na isinulat ng composer..At siyempre, ganun din naman kung ang isang tao ay sobrang in-love..
How I met my husband?
Sa maniwala kayo at sa hindi, we met online, parang “You’ve got Mail” na pelikula, ika nga. Hindi ko na sasabihin ang detalye =) Halos 15 years na rin kaming kasal at binayayaan ng isang gwapo at mabait na anak na lalaki.
Hindi naging madali ang naging simula ng aming buhay mag-asawa subalit di ba’t ganun naman talaga? Totoong pagmamahalan ang tanging naging sandigan naming mag-asawa upang malampasan namin ang kahit ano pang bagyo na dumaan sa aming relasyon. Maaring di pa ganoon katagal ang aming pagsasama, ano ba naman ang 15 years…pero sa makabagong panahon ngayon, sa lifestyle ng makabagong henerasyon ngayon, 15 years is already an achievement.
Aaminin kong mas higit ang pagbibigay na ginagawa ng aking kabiyak, dala na rin ng pagiging workaholic at career woman ko. Ang asawa ko ang nagpupuno ng lahat ng pagkukulang ko di lamang sa kanya, kundi lalo na sa anak namin.
Maraming klase ng paghihiwalay ang ating nababasa, naririnig o maaring ikaw na nagbabasa ng blog ko ay isa sa mga taong dumaranas nito…Kapag ang asawa mo ay nalulong sa ibang tao at naghanap ng pagmamahal sa iba, wag mong iisiping SYA lamang ang may PAGKAKAMALI.. Remember, IT ALWAYS TAKES TWO TO TANGO.
Respeto, tiwala, pag-ibig…at higit sa lahat GOD at the center of every relationship..Sabi nga lahat tayo may Direct line kay BRO…kaya dapat lang na tawagan natin sya anytime…And he is ready to answer all our calls.
Another main “spice” of a strong relationship is the intimacy between couple..Hindi porket mag-asawa na kayo, dun na natatapos ang lahat.. Marriage maybe considered the finish line from being single but this is also the beginning of a new chapter in your life..Being married to the one you love is one of the best things that could happen to anyone…But in keeping the “flame”, marami sa mga PILIPINO ngayon ang may malaking X sa aspetong ito…
A husband should never get tired of courting the wife everyday and vice versa…. Sweet nothings like flowers, note stick on the fridge, saying I love You..small gifts, phone call kahit kanina lang kayo naghiwalay…taking your wife to a special dinner date…giving compliments everyday as soon as she wakes up in the morning, saying “you’re beautiful”…at napakarami pang iba…ang mahalaga, maiparamdam natin sa ating mga asawa ang kanyang kahalagahan sa ating buhay…
Sa kaso naman ng mga babae, we should take care of ourselves too..Hindi porket asawa mo na at ikaw ang pinakasalan…ang lalaki lamang ang may obligasyon sa relasyon… Understand na parehong may obligasyon ang mag-asawa sa isat-isa, subalit “obligasyon” mo ding pangalagaan ang iyong sarili, di lamang para sa ‘yong asawa kundi para na rin sa iyong sarili. Unfortunately, marami sa mga kababaihan ang nagiging “pabaya” sa kanyang pangangatawan after marriage or pregnancy..like I said you owe it yourself at ganun na rin sa iyong asawa..Stay beautiful in and out…
TRUE LOVE never dies…but to keep it, we must take care of it…=))
Hanggang sa muli.
Ms. J
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Nice and inspiring stories and best advice para sa mga mag asawang du magksundo…sanay mabasa nyo ang article na ito…gud luck po and keep on blogging…
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Nice blog, oo nga naman kahit nagmahalan kayo kong walang effort ang bawat isa walang silbi din:):) Nice advice I like it:)
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My husband I met online too, so far 8 years na kaming married with 2 kids na. He is half pinoy din.
I agree with you Ms. J talagang kailangan parati kayong nagliligawan to keep the flame of love alive.. I think if I may add lang, mas maganda talaga walang secrets between husband and wife para mas nagkakaintindihan. Keep writing, first time kong mag comment but Im reading most of your stories.
Thanks!!
From : Ako Si Bibay Ladao…In relationship I’ve tried many time… still moving on… I don’t really know kung anu ba ang kulang sa akin? kasi lagi na lng ako iniiwan… can you advice me? pls reply na lng sa FB account ko thanks alot… God Bless
I apologize Bibay Ladao, I cant reply to your FB account, you’ll know who I am then =)) but heres my piece of advice;
Sa relasyon kasi dapat balanse lagi, kapag sobra o kulang laging me iwanan issue..But then sabi nga you dont find the person who is meant for you, kusang dumadating yan sa takdang panahon, but along the way makakakilala ka ng mga taong sasaktan ka ng di sinasadya dahil sila din ay naghahanap ng real love…Masakit siempre masaktan lalo na sa aspetong LOVE, pero take it as it is…always remember that theres always someone better for you….
OMG…bring back memories theme song ko rin yan…Keep on blogging…God bless u po…
Thanks pareho pa tayo ng initials =)
nice story.. i believe in love na meeting online… i have some friends who got married after being chat mates… u are lucky to have found love and kept it… looking forward to more love stories from u
thank u..fortunately my husband believes in soulmates haha..mas romanctic sya kesa sa akin.
you are lucky po…ako after 16 years of marriage saka pa nagkahiwalay. but its better na ganun dahil iniiwas ko na lang sa gulo ang only son ko na namulat kung pano ako magtiis as a wife.but di naman ako nagregret kung ano man ang nangyari kasi nakuha ko din naman ang peace sa life ko…and i think mas dapat ko mahalin ang sarili ko para sa anak ko..
keep writing po….
thank you and so sorry to hear what happened to you..I always believe that GOD always has a better plan for us..just keep on going good things..goodluck
I wish the stories were in english, because I like to read these…. Gbu.
I apologize jerryd, i love writing it in tagalog,its a good practice also for me since most of my colleagues at work speaks in English..its like going back to my roots..