Date A Girl Who Writes
“Or better yet, date a girl who writes”…ends Rosemarie Orquico’s articles on Dating a Girl Who Reads.
So here it goes…..
Date a girl who writes. Date a girl who spends her money not only on a single, definite collection or passion like “clothes only” or “books alone” but on a variety of things—-from a quirky shirt made by 4-6 year old children at a local orphanage, a lavender scarf woven by a mother of eight who has been a widow since half of her kids were able to understand that their father will never come back, a spur-of-the-moment trip to a far flung island whose caves are said to be haunted by a sea nymph, a 5 o’clock am breakfast in a 50-year old Chinese restaurant on a dusty corner on a downtown boulevard which serves the best fried rice… the list can go on and on. And notice that every time she spends, what she buys are not only the items or the experience but also the tiny details and countless stories of lives and experiences that she can weave perfectly into words.
Find a girl who writes. You know that she does because she carries around with her a handy notepad with torn papers and stick-on notes inserted in between its pages, and these are filled with random writings, often unfinished, jotted down poems, half-finished essays, a what seems to be a first sentence of a supposed to be short story, a quotation from a book, or simply just a word that evokes a lot of meaning.. The writings are not that too organized nor the handwriting too intelligible because most of the time, the string of her thoughts are faster than what her hands can muster.
Look at the hands. You can almost always pinpoint a writer by her hands. You see the girl with the smudges and smears and lines of ink on her hands, most especially in between her fingers? That’s the writer. Don’t get her wrong. She would also sometimes wonder why she couldn’t seem to get away from those ink smudges no matter how many times she would wash and scrub her hands in a day but she would end up pacifying herself that it’s a reality that she has to deal with. Look closely at the weird girl who has chipped fingernails and crooked middle and pointing fingers on her dominant hand. If you get the chance to hold her hand one day, you’ll surely feel a small, single calloused spot on the side of the last joint of her middle finger. That’s the writer. It’s the result of the love affair of her fingers with a pen or the way she would sometimes pound (Take note: pound, not type.) on the keyboard keys, very much like a pianist who is passionately absorbed, lost in his own music.
She’s the girl who would absent-mindedly stare outside the window for most of the time while you’re relating to her what you feel is one turning point in your life and when she does this, you would sometimes get a strong desire to pound on her and tell her to pay attention. Don’t be hurt by her seemingly lack of attention or interest. Don’t worry. She’s one master of multi-tasking. I tell you, you would be surprised when all of a sudden, she would turn to you, remark on what you’ve said with words that hold the deepest sense of meaning and you would further be amazed at how she would matter-of-factly tell you how your smile became somewhat crooked at one point of your story or how a single crease of line crossed your forehead at another point. Now, who’s not paying attention, huh? Do not ever, not even for a second be deceived that she’s not paying attention when she appears like her mind is elsewhere but with you. During those times, her mind is actually in full gear and she would surprise you that she can take account of your story in toto with the right details, including the life dilemma of the old man on the other table across yours which she just heard in passing while listening to yours.
Let her know what you really think of her writing. Talk about one of her poems over a cup of coffee and insert how this particular cup of coffee is special because it was planted and harvested by a certain native tribe in the southern part of the country. You’ll surely get her attention with that. Find time to read her works even those which are written on the side of her textbooks if you happen to come across with them and you would realize her great sensitivity and the special way she looks at life with a certain degree of passion.
Critic her works, don’t be afraid. She will welcome it with a humility that would make you realize that her writing is pushing her to take a great risk of exposing and baring her soul and her heart, piece by piece, fragment by fragment, to differing opinions and views.
Don’t hesitate to disagree with some of her ideas or opinions. Instead of being disappointed, she would greatly appreciate it for she understands that a great piece of writing stimulates ideas and reactions, may it be positive or negative.
It might appear difficult to date a girl who writes because of her unpredictable nature, varied taste, and wide range of experiences that she’s exposing herself into, but I’ll tell you, she’s one of the persons who are easy to be pleased and stimulated. The only key is your resourcefulness and imagination.
Yes, give her some gifts, you cannot do away with it, but don’t give her just the item or the thing. Give her the story and the words and the emotions behind these gifts. Present to her a bouquet of inexpensive flowers and her blush would be priceless because you bought it with her in mind and knowing that the money you spent will be used by a 10-year old kid to buy a new pair of blue slippers to replace the ones with holes on both of the soles. On your date, bring her to dinner on a food cart in one of the old streets downtown without worrying of being called jologs and tell her the story of the vendor who has to sell the fishballs and the kikiam that you’re eating to compensate for his allowance the following day at the local college. Give her the stories and the gifts of words, the dramas, and the funny anecdotes and you would surely move a mile deeper into her heart.
Tell her the truth no matter how ugly or painful you may think it is. She can surely take it, coupled with a poignant smile. She has heard a lot of truths in her lifetime—truths that would make other people cringe. However, she understands that behind those truths expressed in words are sometimes honorable intentions and motivations that have just somehow swayed out of the context. It will never be the end of the world to her.
Don’t get her too comfortable with your presence. Stimulate her even if your effort would at times fail. She understands failure much like she would sometimes purposely lead her characters to fail and doom for she knows that this gives substance and twist to the story, for without it, her write-up would be bland and unimaginative.
If you find a girl who writes, don’t be daunted by her seeming complexity. Keep her close. When you receive a call at 2 o’clock am and you realize that it’s her voice on the other line asking you about a certain word which is already at the tip of her tongue but she couldn’t seem to gather her thoughts completely because she just woke up due to a strong need to put to writing an idea that passed her mind while in the middle of her slumber. Don’t tell her to go back to sleep. Help her think of the right word, noting that her voice is enough to erase your irritation of being woken up and is stronger than a cup of coffee in keeping you wide awake. Who knows, she might be using you as the hero in the short story that she is currently brewing up or better yet, she is in fact writing about a vision of your life together.
You will start to write letters, the real kind, in long hand and expect to see it several years after—-yellowed pages and dog-eared, evidences of having been read for several times. You would start reading Keats and memorize some of her own original poems, reading it to her on a warm night and wonder how you ever thought before that reading poems nowadays is too gooey , when it’s the most romantic and natural thing for you to do.
Learn to ride with her quirkiness and crazy ideas and you would realize that it’s like a whiff of fresh air into your life. On the other hand, in moments when she is in deep thought, try to call her back into the dimension that you are in by your assertiveness and by balancing her silence with your thoughtful comedic acts. Don’t hesitate to break her occasional silences. Introduce and relearn with her the pleasure of experiencing the lighter stuffs in life. When she is having one of her moods during a writer’s block, take the pen out of her hand and hold it tightly with yours—-crooked, calloused fingers and all.
You will declare your love to her in the craziest way you’ve never thought possible—-in a rusty carnival ride, in the middle of a mardi gras, while walking on a wooden plank to the pump boat that would bring you to another island escapade. or probably when there’s a thunderstorm coupled with streaks of lightning and you just find yourself dumbfounded, mesmerized with her complete focus on the natural phenomena in front of her that would lead other people into shrieking, while she gazes at it intently, keeping to mind the exact color at the moment of the streaking of the lightning across the sky and the distinct sound of the thunder so she can write about it perfectly lest she needs this particular scene in her next write-up.
Life with her would be one great adventure with moments of tenderness for she understands the balance of her elements. You will at times want to throttle her, but most of the time, you would roll with her while laughing so uninhibitedly and you will smile so hard ’til your jaws ache and will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled all over your chest yet. She will ask you to write with her the story of your life together, carefully balancing the elements of love, happiness, excitement, conflict, suspense and of course, the happily ever after. And take note, this is open to editing and proofreading.
Do not expect her to be the conventional partner that you could tie on the bed post. Ask the man who tried. For anytime, she may decide to study ballet, or learn digital photography, or join the peace corps. But expect her to love you with the passion that is only equal or even more than what you give her for she is sensitive when it comes to this matter. You will have adorable, intelligent, yet quirky kids with names that have individual stories of their own. She will introduce the children to a world in which there is a balance of magic and the occasional painful truths.
Date a girl who writes because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can introduce you to seeing life in a different light and loving it with a passion like the way you look at her when you think (remember the warning about not believing even for an instance that she’s unaware?) she’s unaware that you’re lovingly gazing at her. If you can only give her monotony, and half-baked decisions of embracing her totality, then you’re better off alone.
If you want the worlds beyond ours and the worlds beyond those still, date a girl who writes.
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“She’s the girl who would absent-mindedly stare outside the window for most of the time while you’re relating to her what you feel is one turning point in your life and when she does this, you would sometimes get a strong desire to pound on her and tell her to pay attention.”
This is very true and often, this is the source of misunderstandings and fights with anyone, be it with a friend or family. crazy.
This sounds like You Should Date an Illiterate Girl by Charles Wernke.
It’s not the same but it has the same style.
This is crap.
Great article! Stimulates me to start writing again
Love your work!
Thank you.
You’re most welcome!
Any chance that we can connect on FB?
Astig!!! seems an adventure if you’ve dated a lady writer…
promise i will find one..
It definitely will be an adventure. You will see a different set of view
This is so true and so wonderfully written. I enjoyed reading it. I am also a writer, but I don’t think I could write something like this.
Nice article. This is so true… I am a writer and some say I am little too weird for them… But who cares??? I want to be with someone who can handle me… Maka-date na nga lang ng artist. LOLS
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The night has come
each scene seems to rush into my mind
did you hear the flowers that sings in spring
they know scerets yet they simply smiled in the sun
a writers story, which no one has ever heard,
she built her own world made of bold letters from a to z
but only those with pure heart will find the key
to share her wonderful world an escape from reality
The night has come
each scene seems to rush into my mind
did you hear the flowers that sings in spring
they know scerets yet they simply smiled in the sun
a writers story, which no one has ever heard,
she built her own world made of bold letters from a to z
but only those with pure heart will find the key
to share her wonderful world an escape from reaality
when dreams comes at night-By Me
wowwwwwwwwwwww! For the longest time , I see myself peculiar..I’ve never read a full description which tells all about Me, Myself and I…I was totally blown away…
Read it again. So soo good.
…
It is always a blessing to find someone who can capture their thoughts in words, especially if they are unpredictable…You will enjoy a life of wonders, magic and the occassional painful truth…Fun galore…Savor it…It will be exciting…
…
”Thanks,your piece bring back memories,i used to date girls like her,and i treasure every moment i shared with them.”
”Dating a girl who writes is challenging and exciting.”With her,you can discuss topics that other girl may find boring.She’s a cheap date,because she prefers nature trippin’ than malling and bar-hopping,so,you can bring her to nearby forest or river in the province and have an intimate conversation there.She will not get bored because nature inspires her’ and triggers her wild imagination to write.She will not get bored on topics like soulmate,karma and reincarnation or even radical ideas like ”dialectal materialism”,perestroika and glasnost.Sometimes she’s unpredictable,but that’s part of her creative and artistic nature.One thing is for sure,you will enjoy and treasure all the moments you shared with her.All that observation about a girl who ”writes” was based on my personal experience because i used to date girls like her way back in college.For the author:”Your piece bring back memories,thanks a lot.”
It’s my pleasure to have this article stir those memories…
I never thought there would be a lot of things to be said about romance and literacy.
http://obamasaysdomore.wordpress.com/2011/02/28/dont-date-a-girl-who-reads/
http://sean.terretta.com/dont-date-a-girl-who-reads-charles-warnke
http://thoughtcatalog.com/2011/dont-date-a-girl-who-reads/
those traces of brown
caught the sunlight
and with her scent
seductive in its purest form
caught me quite unawares
i looked and stared
at her soft and inviting lips
inviting?
was i imagining this
in my world of pleasure
and then again i saw her lips
an origin to loves own axises
the sweetest of smiles
pulled me to her
with irresistible bonds
i needed her
like the air i breathe
needed her touch
and that of her soft lips
crushed against mine again
mine?again?
oh!surely i was fantasizing
in my world of pleasure
oh!the dreams swept me again
the touck of her soft lips
the taste of her warm skin
the fragrance of silken hair
and the beat of an aroused heart
oh!her smell was like the air i breathe
and needed her face to feel
and yet i had to hold on to the firm grounds of reality
sigh!my heart
it lusts,craves and loves
yet, the mind is rational still
enough not to give in to need
rational enough to fight
to fight and win no glory
against a great but
irrational need…..
that is corny i know and gooey too…. but this seemed the best place to share this. who knows maybe i’ll find the girl who writes.
Nice to know that this article generates these responses from you guys and even inspires you to unleash the words that are stirring within you!
good thinking! smile!
May i date you?…..
by the way, what would you say about boys who write and complement each characteristic you describe?? the notepad you talk about is like mine…. but its not always filled with words …sometimes images that convey special meanings to me…its nice to find that there are people like me out there… most people consider us crazy, immature and what else not…but who cares…. i’m me and i’ll live like me….thanx for this article
Date a girl who writes and enjoy the relationship while it lasts. BUT you have to be stimulating enough for her intellect to keep the relationship going for years or for a lifetime if you wish. If not, you risk of losing her to someone online who can write or chat with her better. In cases when this is OK with you, it’s a jackpot for both of you
Insatiability is an occupational hazard. I get your point.
Alas! Someone has written about a girl who is so familiar to me. Very well said, err, written. ( :
same here.. Love to find lots of readers and writers! weee
Yes! It’s always been fun to know that there are a lot of people who have the same passion as yours. (( :
Good luck to our endeavors!
This story made my heart warm once again, I still remember the times when I used to fall in love with beautiful girls and write stories about them, but I never did written a happy ending, because I know in reality I don’t have any happy endings, together with my story and reality, there really was no happy ending after all, so I stop at writing and never have fallen for a girl ever again.
Then I read this, I thought that, if I find a girl who reads and writes, how would my story go now? will I finally have a happy ending?
I never had a girlfriend (NOT ONCE) I am 17 years old, yah, still young, my friends are kinda jealous because unlike before, girls ignore me, but now they stick around a little, they like to stare but I have no feelings no more.
As a writer myself, I can relate to this girl, hell if you check out my notebooks you might get pissed because I write randomly, many stories, also I have written a lot of stories in my facebook, but I stopped, because of I was broken down by one girl, and I was too blind, I gotten hurt, its the most painful feeling I’ve ever felt in my entire life, I’ve done my best for her to feel my love, to feel happy, but in the end, she end up confessing that she used me, because I was weird. Since then, I only feel love in my fantasy world, dreaming that I have a girlfriend like this one in this story, now I cannot tell whether I am inside a dream or in reality, I started avoiding girls since then, and tries to be numb.
This story gave me hope, it made me want to find that girl who writes and date her, for me its a challenge and a wonderful adventure, to the writer of this story, you are great, I salute you, thank you for writing this, you gave me hope.
Sorry if I kinda said a lot, that is just me.
Hey..
Hmmm, do you know that, it was your comment that caught my attention first.. (now you know hehe.)it is unlikely nowadays to find a man whose immense love for words and stories are obvious. Some may find it boring or corny if a man uses words to express himself, coz most of the time, music is the man! haha. But I really find it amusing to find a guy like you; someone who read and write. I never thought that there still exist a guy such as.
and one piece of advice from Charles Warnke:
“Date a girl who doesn’t read because the girl who reads knows the importance of plot. She can trace out the demarcations of a prologue and the sharp ridges of a climax. She feels them in her skin. The girl who reads will be patient with an intermission and expedite a denouement. But of all things, the girl who reads knows most the ineluctable significance of an end. She is comfortable with them. She has bid farewell to a thousand heroes with only a twinge of sadness.”
haha. nice one.
and
easy.. easy boy.. you’re just 17, and still young. Many girls are yet to come. Someday, you’ll meet a girl who loves to write and read, for sure. *winks
Sorry if I kinda said a lot, that is just me. hehe
I never thought that someone would care to read and would reply in my comment ^_^
Your reply made me smile and laugh a bit
well yeah, I never thought I would write stories, and I kinda find it really cool because, when I write it feels good, and I find it better than using cellphone and messaging or passing quotes to a girl, for me it’s better if I write my own, and not just quotes, but stories or novels, technology ruins romance a lot.
My friends told me that my best story was A Thousand Miles, main character was Christopher Archer (the name is based on my name Carlos Artigas) well, it was also my first written story with characters, just wanted to share ^_^
well like I always say I am different, I am not like the other guys. But they differentiate me as WEIRD or WEIRDO, or worst ALIEN.
I like that piece of Charles Warnke, nice one hehehe
yah, I know I’m still young, and I know someday I’ll finally get to meet that girl.
hehehe it’s okay if you said a lot, we’re the same
and sorry again if I said a lot, that is just me. hehe
Like, this is how “it” starts. :”)
What do you mean “this is how “it” starts”?
Nice to know that I’ve made you smile
And who wouldn’t give a care to your comment? It’s damn attractable. haha. If many people would realize how powerful words are. Your future girl might be awaiting out there to see and read this comment of yours. hehe (you’ll see)
And I totally agree to what you’ve said that “technology ruins romance a lot.” Sure. Nowadays, men find it easier to court via text, not to mention facebook.. err.
I do still believe in “romantic words”, you know; no matter how corny they may seem. I even taught my brother some tricks on how to court a girl via words.. LOL
ehem.. ehem.. nice to meet you, Carlos Artigas. hehe i thought you were Gab.
If its not too much to ask, will you let me read that story of yours? wink wink..
please? wink wink
well, you might be wondering why I posted that quote. It obviously talks about a girl who reads. Its just that, I believe that girls who writes, are readers. But not all readers have the heart to write. You also think so? hehe
well, hell yeah, 17 is so damn young for you to mind these things. Other boys your age, mind seemingly on other insensible things. You have to enjoy like them, but still preserving the nature of your being. That one as being different, weirdo or alien; coz that made you so attractable. Really! hehe
Caution: Hell and damn are used to emphasize my indifference to the idea that you are just 17, and I’m a bit older. LOL.
Oh La la! I’ve said a lot again — so me! and is just like you..
Nice to find an actual breathing male who appreciates girls like thee. Keep your head up, Gab, you’ll find your muse soon.
Hahaha, that made me laugh so bad Beatrice
))
It sounds like, guys like me are almost extinct, or already extinct, but I know there are other breathing male like me who appreciates girls like these.
Well like I always say, I am not like the other guys, I have dreams, sounds weird but I always dreamed of a girl like this.
Yah, I’ll keep my head up, and I know I’ll find her.
Truly extinct!
hahaha, well not completely
I’m still here, Alive and Breathing
haha. yep.. hard-to-find!
hehehe, yeah, I know words are powerful, never underestimate the power of words, yah, I hope that she’ll read this.
yah Technology Ruins Romance (WongFu Production once said), that’s the reason why I am always busted, I don’t use cellphones, I have a phone but don’t put load on it.
yah, romantic words are better than text messages or Facebook. long before computers or cellphones are made, guys go around the world to find their muse hehehe
well, I am Gab, and I am also Carlos Artigas
Carlos Gabriel “Gab” Artigas (long name) hehe
its okay for you to read my stories, but, it is in my facebook account, here’s my FB http://www.facebook.com/GRIMmaverick
yep, not all readers are writers, I think so too hehe
readers can be writers if they open their hearts so wide that they have unlimited stories to write about (that was me a year ago)
Preserving my nature of my being? (sounds like I have my own kind and we are almost extinct) hahaha just kidding
hehe I never thought that I am attractive, girls gets attractive to soldiers like me? (just kidding) hehe
but yah I am sure too young to mind these kind of things, I have more things to do, doing arts, writing stuff once again, making films, and my favorite, day dreaming.
I also use hell and damn, but only a few times, when things goes awesome hehehe.
hahaha we do say a lot of things, I never like shortcuts. Give me a message if you’ll add me on facebook, I’d be happy for you to read my stories.
-Gab
whoah! So you also love WongFu Production? My! I love them, too. I mean, there stories are simple yet it speaks about lots of things, and unique.. I haven’t seen all of their videos though.
My name is actually longer, and I’ve added you already in facebook. (trivia: I’m using my full name in fb, lol)Can’t message you, though; to say that it’s me, and I don’t know why.Well, let’s see if you can identify me as me. haha (what?)
I always loved writing and I’m more into short stories, essays and novels with suspense as my genre. But I don’t write often coz of.. procrastination. oooppps. hehe I actually kept diaries when I was younger, like most teenage drama queens do, but now that I’ve known the world a lot wider and better than before, I’ve decided to write just when my heart says so.
(and when I have a new color for my ballpen haha) Pen is a necessity for me ever since. Whenever I find a piece of paper, I’ll write many blah blah blah in it. 
It’s good that you’ve realized your potentials earlier; at the age of 16, right? That made you extinct and hard to find.
soldier of? …. life and love?
wow! you have many talents other than writing, keep up! just know when to day dream, okay?
coz I myself also do that. Maybe that’s the problem with us, imagining things more often. haha
P.S.
Am excited to read your stories.
Do you have a blog? You can add mine.. mydreamlandia.blogspot.com
rainfallofwords.tumblr.com
–ritz
Yap, Wongfu are so cool! Yep, I recognized you on facebook, and already accepted you on FB. Well when I see a pen and a paper, I write random stuff or just draw, it’s kinda a thing in me when I see those stuff.
Yah, well I nicknamed myself Ghost before because I was really hard to find, one time I was there and a second I am gone
(its true, friend of mine got scared when it happened)
well, that was my loner days, (Not days, Four Years)
yeah, I never thought I have potentials like that, or skills of writing.
Soldier of “Peace, Family, Humanity, Life and Love, also of God”
yah, well my writing skills just pop out last summer, when I was writing some random stuff, then later I found out I written 10 pages, back to back story.
)
Well, I’ll make a blog soon, I don’t have a blog, it was my first time seeing a blog, once I made my blog I’ll add you, then I’ll post my stories there, stories from last year.
-Gab
we’re friends now! — in fb.
Mr. Ghost? Eeei, scary. Hehe. I hope you aren’t like that anymore.
It’s nice that you are good in drawing, I always wished to have that talent! huhu but sadly, I don’t have one like that. But it’s ok.
what was your first story? that 10 pages back-to-back story. what its about? is it in your fb? I’ll check it out. hehe
I decided to do blogging months ago, but I realized that I like writing more (as in literal writing — writing by means of paper and pen) rather than typing the keyboard and making it known in the whole wide world. hehe so don’t wonder if my blog is not that full of stuff. Just a few of my stories.
Hope you can have yours one of these days.
See ya around soldier
Well I was a Ghost before, but not anymore
Well, drawing skills are mostly in born, but people can practice to draw and learn to draw.
uhm, the first long story I made, I burned it last year, I was mad at myself that time, writing dark stories, dark stuff
well right now, I am trying to figure out how Blogger works
I actually wanted to enroll in any drawing course or whatever but I haven’t known any of that kind here in our place. I am a teacher so it would be a great help if I know even just the basics; few sketches here and there.
Oh sad.. I wished to read that one but its ok. It cannot be undone, just redo. hehehe
Blogger is cool. Add me up, ok. Thanks!
same here….
do you sometimes feel that, whats wrong with me and in another moment you think who cares… and your wierdity is the end of your relations… because we can’t express love in another way … just words,verses and poems.. that they are never able to interpret… our words never find them… the depth is lost in their casual “its good”…i’m 17 too… and in almost the same situation
Yah, I do feel the same… also in the same situation, but things will change…
Yah, I do feel the same… also in the same situation, but things will change…
Yah, I do feel the same… also in the same situation, but things will change…
TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Being a writer or a journalist… The only thing I regret is…..
the string of thoughts are faster than what the hands can muster…
HAHA!!!!
TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Being a writer or a journalist… The only thing I regret is…..
the string of thoughts are faster than what the hands can muster…
HAHA!! This is super true! really…..!
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date a girl who writes. date a girl who reads. what’s next? date a girl who is athletic. date a girl who is musically inclined. what if these girls are fat and ugly and they stink. get real!
thing is — if The Student is real, he would have read between the lines: that the girl who writes is also athletic, musically inclined, loves to cook, clean house, svelte, and fashionable. ouch.
Writers are damn attractive and very interesting. I can really relate. I also want to meet interesting people just like you guys( Aura, Gab, Ritz, and Beatrice). Keep it up. Your words are very inspiring.
Thank you! Good luck to our writings.. May we be able to make a difference through our words
May be fat and ugly..but real in themselves..real beauty is in their thoughts..not just some hot, skinny, pretty girl that comes TEMPORARILY..the author didn’t even mention what’s next..ur getting too ahead of yourself
You’re missing the point.
It’s not just saying that you should date a girl who reads. It says that you should date somebody with a passionate, sincere soul, and such a girl/boy is rare to encounter in this world nowadays.
A person who is keen enough to stop and observe nature, to catch every wavering blink of the eye shows the selflessness of a lover to attend to the needs of the other. Who would not want such a loving partner?
touche